How to Help Kids and Pets Cope with the Moving Process
Moving is a frustrating experience even without the added burden of caring for young children and pets. Often, children and pets become nervous or frightened by the experience, because everything familiar is being uprooted. However, these tips from professional movers can help you ease tension, which will help you, your children, and your pets make this transition more easily.
Helping Children Cope
1. Take the Time to Explain the Move
Before you start packing and making arrangements, it’s important to take the time to explain the move to your children. They won’t understand why the move is necessary and will have many questions. It may be helpful to use toys or stuffed animals to help explain the move in a way that will set your child’s fears at ease.
2. Help Your Children Grieve
Even if you’re just moving to a new neighborhood, your child will likely have to change schools and leave old friends behind. It’s important to understand this will be an emotional experience for them. You might make a scrapbook specifically for this purpose, where you can collect photos of your children with their friends and other keepsakes. This will give them something to comfort them throughout the process.
3. Maintain the Routine
It’s also important to continue doing your normal activities as much as possible. So much will be changing for your child that trying to maintain a sense of normalcy is especially important. While it may be easier to skip game night or forgo the Friday night pizza party, going through with normal activities will help your children see that their lives won’t change as much as they fear.
Helping Pets Adjust to the Move
1. Consistency Matters with Pets, Too
Pets may become even more agitated by the move because you can’t explain it to them. They will simply sense the heightened emotions and see you packing everything into boxes. For this reason, helping them stick to their routines can ease their fears. Keep up with the daily walks and other normal routines.
2. Limit Change
For many families, a move is a time for a fresh start, and they may use this opportunity to throw away old pet bedding and toys. This can actually upset the pet even more about the move. Hang onto those things and bring them to your new home, so your pet will have familiar things in this new and unfamiliar place. It’s also a good idea to put his bedding in a similar place. If his bedding was in the dining room in the old house, try to put it in your new home’s dining room.
3. Keep Your Pet Out of the Way
Dogs especially end up getting in the way and may get loose as movers transport boxes and furniture. For this reason, it may be a good idea to book a kennel stay for your pets. At the very least, let them stay in a kennel, while the moving truck is being loaded and unloaded. If you’re moving within the same city, it may be easier to keep the pet in the kennel until the move is complete.
In general, making the move easier for your children and pets will make it easier for you as well. This means doing everything possible to ease their nerves and to understand that moving into an unfamiliar home will be unsettling for them. You might even choose to consult your pediatrician or veterinarian for more suggestions on easing tensions about the move in advance.